Being a lesbian rocks

[assyrian lesbian]

Girls are very sexy. Don't you agree?

[Another Assyrian d**e]

admin said:

Girls are very sexy. Don't you agree?

Girls are sexy..i agree honey...
Anyway...i was searching and was glad to find ur message...i'm another Assyrian girl that is intrested in girls as well and i find it hard to come out to my family..i don't want to go on coz i've noticed that u haven't logged on in almost a month soo u c this please reply i would like to talk to ya
Assyrian d**e

[assyrian lesbian]

Hey! Sorry it's taken me so long. I had trouble with geocities and I thought they had banned the site for whatever reason so I never checked it until today.

So tell me about your family and your situation, I'm sure things are going to be pretty much the same as mine.

[Hey u]

so good to hear from you lady...yeah things are pretty much the same as yours...when i told my mom this one time she was like...AAAAHHHHAAA La AMRAT HAT-KHA...these are sick people and you are young you think that you are but you are not...blah blah and more blah...so i decided to not talk about it anymore...dude i'm so happy to hear back from you...I added this site to my favorites and keept on checking it...dude it's good to know ya and hope to talk to u soon

[assyrian lesbian]

Haha, I think I got the same line as well "You think you are one of them, but you're not". That is classic. I think its a good response, I mean, better than lots of yelling and screaming. How about other family, have you mentioned it to any of them?

[Another Assyrian d**e]

yeah we had lots of family visits this summer...and i opened up to one of my aunts (if this is how it's spilled?) and she was understanding of it but told me not to tell certain people in my family...i think deep inside her she loves me but wants to c me with a man...yeah as much as i'm proud to be an Assyrian...well..sometimes it F@%#ing sucks...
anyway, tell me...is this open to public? can anyone log here and read our messages?

[assyrian lesbian]

yup, what you're saying right now is open to the public. But looking at the count meter at the bottom of my page, I think only you and I visit it. But if you want to discuss without possible lurkers, just email me at iamthespark at yahoo.com.

I think all your family will hope to see you with a man one day. The most you can do is hope they can tolerate you *not* being with a man, and just be happy for you. Its culture and religion that we've got to overcome.

[Emmm]

hey lady
i did e mail you .. but havn't got anything back from you...so let me know if u got it or not...talk to ya

[LadyVA]

no way! so i heard about a free gay/lesbian assyrian dating thing online and found this. i read yall messages to each other... its so funny ..."You think you are one of them, but you're not"... got that one too! hahaha. regarding family, ive only told my immediate family. im so confortable and proud of who i am i need not say much. my extended family knows by their oh-so-keen intuition that im a d**e, but im sure both of yall know... they will never admit it to themselves or anyone else. haha thats pretty funny too:) because to them, the girls i bring to our "Gatherings" with me will always be just my "friend". whatever! i know who im goin home with;) im a 26/f in va. gay as hell/part assyrian. nice to meet yall!!!

[Administrator]

Hey! I havent visited my own site in so long I forgot my username and password to this message board! lol. Oh well, great to meet you too!

YES! So far I've "connected" with 2 assyrian lesbians (including you). One day, that number will become 3!

[Assyrian Lesbian Number 3]

This is the best thing i have ever come across on the Internet! More assyrian lesbians that have the guts to come out and live the lesbian way! I cant believe it, this is amazing

I came out to my brother and sisters 9 years ago, my bro's really cool, but i know my sisters would rather have me married, along side my mother whom we all protect from any form of stress. She is properly old school Iran and i know she is not capable of digesting the concept of me being gay. Since my father died 10 years ago she has become really insecure and over sensitive. Hence we haven't told her, but to be honest she's not stupid and can see I'm not like the other assyrian girls, looking all pretty and glamorous in their frocks. I actually blend in better with the boys wearing my suites and shirts ;D

Yes the young assyrians from my community all know I'm gay, it's pretty obvious and i cant be bothered to lie. My close assyrian friends love me for me, the youth accept me, i attend assyrian youth functions and have a great time. Unfortunately the elders do not have the same views. But then what do you expect? They all talk nuts anyway, all they do is sit around talking nuts, their lives are so empty it makes them feel good talking nuts about anything or anyone.

The only thing that saddens me is the response some elders have given my mother in church or what ever. Because of me my mothers name is shamed, she's the sweetest thing and does not deserve to be ignored.

I take it you girls are in the USA? I'm in London!

Its a pleasure meeting you both

[assyriangrl]

Hey ladies! ;D

I'm really excited about finding this forum. I'm an Assyrian lesbian from the Midwest and would love to communicate with other Assyrian lesbians. I just can't find any here, it's really hard.

I'm sure we can all bond and relate on the fact that it's not easy being an Assyrian lesbian. I'm OUT to my family and friends, it wasn't easy, but it's done. Hope to hear from you ladis soon!

[doe]

Hi girls, i am happy to find this site .. to i am the spark, i would like to become your mom's best friend maybe she would set me up with u! there is nothing better than to date an assyrian girl!

[doe]

where is everybody? I mean where from, i am in cali, how about u ladies?

[assyriangrl]

Chicago here!